end of my tether

[babietee123]

I have 3 girls aged 1 3 &5 they have no respect for anything or anyone they destroy my house I mean every day they wreck every room they know they are not allowed to do these things like but punishments don't work I have ocd and I feel like i have no life I get house tidied while they having naps or school within tn minutes house is destroyed they I love them but am starting to resent them for I don't have very much money and save to do thing in house for them to destroy my mum completely unmines me such as I took every single toy out of the room because they again wrecked everything for my mum to stnd and say oh your mummy's very cruel and nasty and that kids don't know any better this whole thing is destroying me

[Kariana]

This sounds like it's very stressful for you. When you say they destroy the house can you describe in more detail? For example are they leaving toys everywhere and not tidying? Are they breaking anything and if so what (toys/ornaments/furniture)? Are they drawing on walls or furniture? Throwing things? Knowing what the behaviour is will help people to give advice.

[babietee123]

All of the above take food out of the fridge and give it to the dog iv an alarm on fridge vutbthey ripped it off

[Kariana]

What consequences have you tried so far?