The kids slept at my in laws last night and I went to pick them up this morning. I sat in the garden with them whilst they ate their icecreams and played. When me and FIL walk back into the house we immediately smell smoke like paper burning. It smelt the strongest in the conservatory so I started looking around for anything on fire and found a burnt match. I called in DS and asked him to tell me the truth and he admitted he had lit a match which then turned into "I've lit two" then " I lit loads and threw them behind the sofa".... This carried on until he told me what I hope is all the truth. He had lit a candle and blown it out, burnt some paper and blown it out. There was at least 15 matches hidden behind the sofa. He's never even lit a match before as far as I know and I'm disappointed as I really thought he knew better. I haven't a clue where to go from here or what to even say to him or how to dicipline him ? He could have set the house on fire ! How do I deal with this ?
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