I've been on here before about this but DD is getting worse and worse when put to bed.
We have always read her some stories and then just put her in the cot and kissed her good night, she would maybe roll around and play for a bit but would then go off to sleep without a peep.
In the last few weeks she has started to call for us to "come back" and then the excuses start!! I've heard them all!! But after 2-3 re visits she would sleep.
So now as soon as she is put down she starts crying and asking us to stay. For some reason when I'm not around it isn't so bad so DH has been pretending I have gone out and it's nowhere near as bad?! But I can't pretend to be out every night!! Now if I go in and then Try to leave she gets hysterical.
Head banging, throwing hers do around the cot, climbing out of the cot.... She just will not settle.
We have tried a controlled crying type approach but just gets worse when we go back in.
We are converting the cot to a bed tomorrow which I'm sure will make everything worse!!
I'm also 34 weeks pregnant...
I have read and been told on here to sit I the room with her until she falls asleep. This doesn't work as if I'm in the room she just wants to talk and play.
I've tried cutting her nap much shorter and today tried no nap but still no difference!?
I don't know if she is acting up as she is picking up a baby is imminent??
I really really want to sort this before baby!!
I so miss my evenings, currently not settling til 9ish and then I can't relax either??
She is 2 years and almost 4 months.
All advice massively welcomed!!
Thanks xxx
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major bedtime issues - need help please!!
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LimesMum · 27/05/2016 22:28
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