I'm getting really really worried about my 3 year olds shyness.
For a long time now when we go to social situations - parties, soft play, sport etc she will refuse to participate in any activity and cling to me or my husband for the duration, she just won't get involved with the other children. She has even been known to cry and ask to go home.
Also at nursery today I when I picked her up I noticed her standing by herself in the playground. I asked her key worker about it who said she often hangs back and observes, but will get involved in small group activities when encouraged.
She is fine when we have play dates with children she knows. However in big play dates with lots of children she does often hang back for a while until she feels more comfortable to get involved.
She will also respond to questions asked by adults and is very confident around mine and my husbands friends. She is also very confident with family members, and a very chatty bubbly girl at home.
I'm getting really worried that she is going to have a difficult time making friends in school due to her shyness.
I hate to think of her by herself, i just want the best for her. I can't get the image of her standing in the playground by herself out of my head.
Is it just a phase? Has anyone got any experience of this or any tips to try to get her over come her shyness?
Any tips welcome - we have a party this weekend and I am dreading it as hate to think of her worried at it.
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Shy toddler - help!
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LittlelottieO · 12/04/2016 22:06
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