My son is almost 6. He's a great boy, no worries about bad behaviour and is bright for his age. He does however worry about every little thing. He still cries some mornings going into school- especially if someone new will be in that day or if he has been off for a while- example being off for Easter holidays last week. He went back yesterday and cried the whole way in the car and clung to me when we arrived at school. He kept saying he was nervous and scared- It's like he is taking a panic attack. He gets clammy, says he feels sick and doesn't think rationally. I hate to see him that way.
We went to the cinema over Easter, we were in a different town for the day and thought we would go and see zootropolis. He panicked as we were going to a different cinema that we had never been to and again kept saying he was nervous and scared and kept trying to pull us away. I worked with him and once we were in and he was seated it was fine, we had a great day out.
He also takes things very literally- when he was 4 and in nursery they were learning about outer space. The teacher told them all to pretend they were in a rocket and hold onto their seats so they could blast off into space. Ds was terrified and crying that he didn't want to go to space.
In a gadget type shop the worker was using a toy remote control car, making it drive around the floor and again, ds got scared and was crying and shouting that we had to get out as the car would run us over.
I don't know if it's relevant but his fine motor skills aren't great either. He still can't pedal a bike or trike, he just can't grasp pushing his legs the whole way round.
He is an avid collector of things- first it was Thomas the tank trains, then sky landers, now he's mad on dinosaurs- he can tell you every name, and loves to sort them into meat eaters and plant eaters.
He doesn't like going to friends houses, he's been twice and at one friends he cried and when I picked him up said he missed me and wasn't going back. At another's he was great, had a great time however when he was invited over again he bluntly told the mum no he didn't want to.
I suppose my inkling is autism. He's almost 6 now and I get the feeling that school are just labelling him as a cry baby- when he's upset in the morning he is told that he's a big boy now and not to cry, which doesn't help him. He's always happy coming out of school, it's just the thoughts of going in in the morning and leaving me.
Who do I go to with my concerns? The GP or the school? Am I looking into it too much?
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who do I go to with concerns about my son?
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CinderellaFant · 05/04/2016 10:41
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