I'm really worried about DS1. His behaviour is getting worse and worse and yesterday he did something so stupid I can't even sleep now.
Before half term I was called into school regarding bad behaviour. Not listening, not doing his work to the best of his ability and carrying on with friends when he should have been working. Being rude to teachers to be funny. His teacher and I were very firm about a plan where he would be given a time period to fix his behaviour, and then if he hadn't fixed it he would have some punishments.
Once the time period was up, we had a second meeting. Apparently his behaviour was now worse. There really wasn't anything left for me to take away (hasn't had Xbox since the first meeting, hadn't been out with friends) So, with the teacher we agreed that if his behaviour didn't improve he would not go to a particular sleep over that weekend. He managed to hold it together at school according to his teacher so we agreed to let him go.
During the sleepover I messaged the other mum a couple of times to check everything was ok, and reassured if anything went wrong I would come collect him at any time. She said it was fine. When I picked him up from the sleepover, the parents still said it was all fine. Then when I went to get his clothes, they were soaking wet. He had been in their outdoor pool. He had gone in to get a ball. The other kids at the sleep over (a group of 4) had apparently cheered him on 'do it do it' style and so my DS had gone into the freezing cold pool unsupervised to collect it.
I am upset because obviously he has no idea how to behave - I have really failed him in this area. He used to be the kid I could always rely upon to be sensible and get glowing reports from their peoples parents. This has come out of the blue. The school thing is getting worse and worse. He is annoying and attention seeking and progressively allowing his standards to go lower and lower.
He won't be going on any more sleepovers. He won't be getting his xbox for months. I have asked him what is going wrong, but he can't really tell me. What else can I do?
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7 year old attention seeking behaviour
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Ickythumpsmum · 06/03/2016 00:40
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