ok going to set the scene:
7 year old has a birthday party in a large hall , its a secret play thing where parents are invited in afterwards to watch.
all parents are told the theme on the invite and what will be happening before by email, invited to stay with children in another room , age aprop is put at 4 years +
1 child invited is not yet 4 but aged 3 years 9 months ( family member ) comes with older brother ( she had suggested husband would come to help but he stayed home to do jobs instead)
Party starts , all parents in other room having tea and natter
birthday mum keeps checking and notices little one is play fighting and being disruptive , other children getting annoyed , party mum speaks to 3 + year old telling him if he doesn't listen or want to stay in he can come out and do something else, he says he wants to stay .
check 5 minutes later , still being disruptive , told has one more chance.
few minutes later birthday child comes with a split lip , party organiser tells mum it was youngest boy who head butted her when trying to stop him kicking her friend
what as the organiser/ birthday mum of the party would you have done / or would you do with this situation
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1to10andstartagain · 21/02/2016 12:13
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