First I want to apologise in advance for how long this is going to be.
DD is 5, 6 in March and has developed major anxiety in the past few weeks.
She has developed a major issue about being lost. She will not go out in public unless she is holding someone's hand which is great when we are in a busy street or shop but not so great when you are going from the house to our driveway with a load of bags or when you are trying to put your purse back in your bag after paying for the shopping with one hand.
She constantly asks questions about being lost and often cries when going to bed. She asks questions like "what will I eat if I get lost" "how will I know who to talk to if I get lost?" when I am reading her story at night she says " I am still worried about being lost all the time". She is asking questions about being lost roughly 5-6 times a day then we have the tears at bed time.
I have tried reassuring her, I have calmly told her time and time again that it is very unlikely she will get lost and told her that police, shopkeepers, teachers etc are people she can ask for help. I have ordered her a necklace with my phone number on it which is yet to arrive but we have made one out of paper and string to make do in the mean time. I just don't know how to help her any more. I hate that this is playing so much on her mind when she should be thinking about Barbies and unicorns and other fun things.
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5 Year old's anxiety
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DeepfriedPizza · 25/01/2016 09:41
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