First, I'll declare that I am a dad so I hope that's okay to post on here, I'm no sure where else to find the wealth of knowledge Mumsnet has to offer.
I've a quick question on what age you've found children start questioning their reality. My son is 6 and today said he doesn't like himself. He's cute, funny, intelligent and sensitive so it was strange for him to say this out of the blue. He's got a perfect life and shouldn't have a care in the world. I re-assured him that he's amazing and to be himself because we love him just as he is.
He seemed happier but then he said the following, "I don't believe in god, don't believe in Jesus, don't believe in anything. How do I know this is all real? How do I know I'm real?".
I tried to re-assure him some more but could see the questions troubled him.
I don't mind these questions. I'm an atheist and have not encouraged him to believe or not to believe. I figured he's way too young and will work it all out for himself when he's older so it's never really been discussed. I expected to have a conversation like this when he was approaching his teens. It's great that he's asking deep questions but I don't think he's mature enough for the answers.
I'm not sure what I'm asking for really... perhaps just how common is it for a 6 year old to question his existence and how can I re-assure him about reality without confusing him more.
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Son trying to understand reality
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badger1234 · 19/01/2016 21:01
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