My middle daughter is making herself vomit.
I noticed she'd been sick a lot, so last month when she was sick I looked at her attendance record, she is sick Tuesdays and Wednesdays once a month.
She was sick again last night so is off today. I know she has her period this week.
She's always been very sensitive about growing up. She refused to wear a bra until well past the stage of needing one. She cried when she eventually admitted she needed one.
Her periods have been a minefield. No one must talk to her about them. She won't ask for san pro. I need to keep it stocked and hidden. On the one occasion I forgot she wrote me a note and then hid in her room until after I'd been to the shop. If I'm buying san pro, even for myself, she leaves the shop. She won't carry san pro in her bag, even when she's due on, we've binned a few pairs of pants because of this.
If you push her on any issue about growing up she locks herself in her room and/or cries.
I've tried talking to her about tampons. She wouldn't talk. I bought some anyway and left them in the bathroom drawer with her pads. They've been opened, she's used one, but I bought them about 3 months ago, so for whatever reason she's decided they are not for her.
I offered to write her a note to her PE teacher explaining that she is sensitive about her periods and asking if she can miss PE. She would not answer me or look at me. I wrote the note and left it in her tutor book, I assume she disposed of it on the way to school. It's no longer there and she's still sick today.
I'm at a loss of what to do. I can't just allow her 2 days off a month.
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Daughter making herself sick to avoid PE when she has her period.
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ItWillWash · 12/01/2016 15:50
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