DD is 3.9 and has always enjoyed being the youngest out of her and DS (5). We've never babied her and encourage her to be a 'big girl' in things like going to the toilet and dressing herself, both things she is capable of doing herself.
However, she's really gone to town on insisting she's a baby since DD2 was born in July. I completely understand why she's doing it but it's making it very hard to develop her independence. It started with wanting us to get her dressed, then taking her shoes off, the latest thing is she wants us to wipe her bum after doing a wee.
I really try not to pander to it but she knows when we're on a time limit (like the school run) and is worse then, knowing that I'm more likely to give in to speed her up. Along with the constant defiance, tantrums and hitting its really wearing me down.
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3yo DD insists she's a baby
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SausageSmuggler · 17/12/2015 22:06
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