DD is 2.4 and very ahem spirited. Since 18 months she has had the most horrendous tantrum that include ear piercing screaming/shouting/hitting/hair pulling/biting/ throwing etc.
I know it's probably usual for 2 year olds but it can be from the tiniest thing (last night it was because I gave her her milk in her orange cup instead of her pink water bottle). I was so wound up by her constant screaming and hitting whilst I tried to get her ready for bed I just snapped and took her out her cot, sat her on a chair and shouted at her. Then she tried to hit me, I said no, so she tried again and I ended up slapping her leg. Not really hard but enough for her to feel. I honestly still feel so terrible about it, I promised myself I would never hit her because it would only be done out of anger. And yet I hit her straight away I grabbed her and cuddled her and broke down in tears as she cried and kept saying sorry. It was a good job DP came home from work at that point and finished bed time because I just felt defeated.
Despite wanting to try better today I've just found myself reverting back to the same shouting and feelings of desperation. Every meal time is a battle where she refuses to eat whatever I put in front of her. Brushing her teeth this morning was a two man job this morning and resulted in screaming and hitting and I just can't take it anymore.
Please can someone tell me that it DOES get better? I'm so worried that she's just going to grow up and hate me, and I can't face the thought of another day looking after her by myself.
I'm sorry this is so long, I just feel so sad and deflated. I feel like everyone else I know has perfect children who rarely throw epic tantrums (I've had comments from strangers and people I know about her tantrums) whilst I have a child who seems to just be miserable.
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Please tell me it gets better, I feel like I'm going to snap!
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Drogon · 15/12/2015 16:12
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