DD is just 3 and has recently moved up to the preschool class from nursery. There seems to now be a big difference between the 3 year olds and the children that are 4/5, in their behaviour.
There is a lot of pushing children out of joining in, a select group of friends that seem to be a bit mean to the little ones. Some of the children have only been in the room 6 months longer than the newest group to move up.
We have had issues of older children hitting or pushing younger ones including DD away. When we have arrived to collect her at the end of the day, twice we have witnessed incidents with 2 older children.
One of which the boy snatched a toy off my DD, hit her on the arm then held onto her tightly and said no your not playing with that. (Teacher and my self both witnessed and it was dealt with quickly).
Then a few days later, my DD went over to see what they were doing in a cardboard box and an older girl held a pen up towards her face and said no your playing with us.
Admittedly when we have been there, it has be very quickly dealt with and the other child has been removed from the game and sat out. But it makes me think what else is going on when we aren't watching and teachers don't always see every incident.
Is this normal for 4/5 year olds to be like this? My DD (so far), hasn't been through the snatching, biting or hitting stage but has often come home telling us about a child hitting her or with accident/incident forms where she has red marks or bite marks from another child. I have worked in nurseries before, but with under 2's, so I know at that age they snatch, hit and sometime bite but is this normal at pre school age? Are the mean comments just a part of how it is at that age?
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Is this normal behaviour for kids in preschool?
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Cheesecrumpets01 · 23/11/2015 11:13
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