Hi, My 4 year old has recently started some bad behaviour such as kicking, ignoring and laughing at discipline and spitting. After the last spitting incident and sending him to his room I went up to have a chat with him. I eventually got him to explain his actions and they were that his brain went red, and wasn’t blue. He has mentioned this red/blue brain thing before when he has been naughty, and nursery inform us he has come up with this explanation on his own. I am wondering if anyone else has had a child explain their feelings in this way? Essentially when he is naughty he says his brain goes red and its not blue (when he is calm).