Firstly let me just say that I have a 6yo DS who has ASD, he was diagnosed at two and a half and I just can't remember what he was like as a baby (or my other two neurotypical DS's before him insert Mammy guilt here
The latest addition to our family is a little DD and she is lovely, she rolls all over the place, holds finger food to eat it, is a bit obsessed with the TV whenever the kids watch it (slightly worrying but do all babies love the TV?)
She is babbling but nothing meaningful yet, not crawling or even close to crawling or pulling herself up etc yet either.
She does mimic our faces, eg stick tongue out etc and loves peek a boo and songs (especially if they are from Frozen!) She laughs her head off at the boys when they dance or play with her and loves to play with me and DH too.
If you are interesting enough she will hold eye contact no problem.
The thing is, she totally ignores her name when you call her. You could literally say it twenty times in a row and she won't so much as even look your way.
If you make a more interesting sound however (like blowing raspberries or laughing/singing) then she will usually grace you with an acknowledgement or most likely give you a passing glance if something more entertaining is in her line of vision lol
I keep reading that babies should respond to their names by ten months (and that lots are crawling by this stage too) but she completely and utterly ignores me and DH mainly when we call her name.
The boys have better luck with her as when they call her she will respond at least 50% of the time, but with us adults, nothing!
I have just called her name again, over and over and over and she has ignored me yet again, until I make a more enticing sound.
Is this okay?
I'm paranoid I know I am because DS3 has autism. It came as a shock to us and we were so unprepared, I suppose I just want to be extra vigilant with DD and try to catch it early.
DH is just as stressed as me about it and forever analyzing everything she does (as do I) so we aren't making it easy on ourselves I know.
It's just the responding to her name is such a big thing and then it makes you wonder about other little things that could be made into big things too.
I'm rambling, sorry.
I would love a bit of advice please.
Thanks
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10mth old not responding to name/ignoring me.
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FixerUpperUp · 26/01/2015 15:10
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