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3.5 yo DD bedwetting on purpose please help

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gaggiagirl · 14/12/2014 00:34

This has only been going on for a week but I'm at breaking point tonight. I've got no clean sheets left. She told me she does it because she doesn't like her bed and she wants to get into my bed.
I put her back into bed she wets it. I change sheets put her on the toilet put her back to bed she screams, she wets it. Tonight this cycle has been going on since 10pm.
Please someone tell me what to do Sad

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PolyesterBride · 14/12/2014 00:45

Can you offee a reward for staying dry? Do a reward chart? Put her in pull ups? (You can put it on once she's asleep if she refuses.)

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Pancakeflipper · 14/12/2014 00:49

Why is she so unsettled to not want to sleep in her own room?
There's a reason (could very trivial to you) why she's not wanting her bed.

Definitely not got a UTI?

Might be worth speaking to ERIC who have lots of info about wetting. Their website it useful (cannot do link as on crap gadget).

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gaggiagirl · 14/12/2014 00:51

Yes I'll try both of those tomorrow poly. She's really furious at me for not letting her sleep in my bed.
She's been dry at nights for about 9 months so this is a big set back.

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gaggiagirl · 14/12/2014 00:55

pancake I did think uti at first as she was saying her bot was sore but pointing at the front but tonight she said it was because she hates her bed. She said the sheets make a crispy noise and there are aliens and robots at her window.

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Pancakeflipper · 14/12/2014 01:01

I think its worth ruling out UTI (that can cause disturbed sleep patterns as its a miserable thing).

Is it night terrors?

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gaggiagirl · 14/12/2014 01:05

A trip to the docs then? Good advice thank you.
She's just been for a wee on the toilet. OH is lying on the landing awaiting the next awakening.
We are TTC no.2 I'm rethinking that! Wink

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gaggiagirl · 14/12/2014 01:08

WRT night terrors, no she's not hysterical on waking and she bed wetting while fully awake tonight but the rest of the week I can only presume she was asleep when she wet and that woke her.

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