OK today we decided to implement the naughty step with our son (2.5)
He was banging his cup at dinner repeatedly and I said "if you bang your cup you will have to sit in the naughty corner" He kept doing it, I warned him again, he said "ok" so I took him the corner and said sit there.
We then had 30 mins of tantrum/screaming and returning him to the spot. His arse hardly touched the ground before he was up and running. During this time we didn't communicate just wordlessly returned him to the spot. After 30 mins he (kind of) stayed still for 2 mins and then we went and said you were placed here because you kept banging your cup when you were asked not to. Then we had lots of cuddles and kisses and he was fine.
Was this right? I know that we have to follow through but i'm scared to EVER threaten the naughty corner again for fear of losing another 30 mins of my life, sweating, and heaving him back to the spot!
He was so tearful and screamy for the 30 mins I worry that we emotionally scarred him but loads of people use this technique don't they? Dare I ever try again?
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Talk me through the naughty step
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TravellingToad · 10/11/2014 21:54
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