My baby is 9mo - he 'was' a little angel, so laid back, slept through from 2 weeks, fed like a pro, lovely happy little chap.
The good sleeping stopped at 4 months, that's fine - I can handle broken nights.
I was planning to stop breastfeeding by 6 months but this hasn't happened as he is a bottle refuser. He was taking a dummy but also started to refuse that a month ago.
This past week or so he seems to have turned into the devil child (is that harsh? Maybe.) The first thing is he's become incredibly clingy. I'm not talking getting upset if I leave the room clingy. I'm talking getting HYSTERICAL if I even sit him next to me on the sofa, he goes mental and claws his way on to my lap. However he is not content with just sitting on my lap, he has to be facing me. I think if he could climb inside me, he would. GOD FORBID I put him down on the floor to play, he throws himself forwards, smashes his head on the floor and has a general hissy fit. Let's not even discuss if I need to leave the room. Car is a nightmare, pram is a nightmare (tries to throw himself backwards out of it) he won't even sit in his highchair now to eat. He's throwing his arms up at me constantly and trying to throw himself out. Do we see the theme here?
All of the above would probably be manageable (just!) but I also have a 5 year old and my partner works away, alot. So I'm basically a single parent, just not officially.
It is now 9.12 and he's upstairs in his cot screaming because after more than 2 hours of feeding him to sleep, laying him down and him waking up and going hysterical - my poor 5 year old has watched the same peppa pig dvd 4 times and has basically been neglected all evening. He is supposed to go to bed at 8 himself but I've not even had a chance to bath him, let alone read him a story and put him to bed, besides it's a bit noisy upstairs. I just about managed to give him dinner earlier (cooked during a screaming fit because I wasn't holding the baby) I have tried a sling but it's so hot, we both just end up boiling and miserable.
I don't know what to do? Wits end. Literally. I don't believe in crying it out but this is where we are at this evening :(
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Can somebody help before I lose my mind?!
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youaremychocolatecake · 26/07/2014 21:15
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