I'm worried about DS (6.5). I feel like I've lost my wonderful little boy - I've always been so proud of his positive attitude, how kind and caring he is towards other people etc. Over the last few months he has become more and more angry, gets very upset if he's asked to make an effort or engage his brain (eg at reading or writing), is obsessed by violent things (swords, guns, playing fighting games at playtime), putting on silly voices (I know that sounds stupid but it's really bothering me as it's like he's impersonating one of his friends who is a little idiot) and has started lying to try and get out of trouble at school.
I've tried making sure he reads every night and giving him slightly easier reading material which has helped with the reading melt downs a little, but the problem that he doesn't want to focus remains both at home and at school. We either stop at the park for half an hour or he has an after school activity (Beavers, Tennis and Swimming) which again seem to help a little - idea being he has something positive and physical to do. We also go for walks and bike rides on the weekends. He doesn't watch a lot of TV - most days it goes on while I'm cooking dinner so 20mins to half an hour and as DD is 4 they're only watching age-appropriate programs, generally Cbeebies. DH is an involved, active parent. He goes to bed by 7:30 every night and gets plenty of sleep. He eats fairly well. So what am I doing wrong????
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6.5yr old DS turning into a monster. What am I doing wrong???
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BluePeterMummy · 16/06/2014 21:12
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