He's 8. He wants to play with the 3 other kids on our road (11 and 7 year old brothers and another child who is 10).
These three play together and when my child tries to join in they do one of the following
- Ignore him and play on
- Yell at him to go away
- go to their houses and arrange to meet later
My poor son is so dejected and sad. It's hard on him. He watches them from the window wanting to be part of the games. Last night, he went out to join in, the three just left him standing there and his wee sad face said it all. He walked back to our house like he was carrying the world on his shoulders.
The previous history is that there is a bit of personality clash with the 2 brothers and my son. They are domineering (they fight among themselves) and have previously pushed and shoved my son. Once, a blow to the tummy. When he stood up to them, they went straight to their mother telling tales.
The other child is lovely.
We are trying to support our son. Trying to find him other friends nearby (hard) and reassuring him it's not his fault.
Privately I'm just finding it difficult. I'm astonished at the meanness kids show kids at such a young age.
Anybody go through this and have it work out? Or any strategies? We have to live beside these kids so we need solutions. I'm dreading the 8 week school hols.