Hi all,
Me and dd (3.5yr) are having some major problems over leaving her friends' at their houses or at the park.
I say beforehand we're only going for blah, blah, we need to leave by teatime, we won't be able to go back to their house after park. I also let her know before we have to leave that we will be going soon.
When it comes to it, she has major meltdown, crying, screaming, refusing to leave. Ends up with me giving her last chance to say goodbye to her friends nicely and give them a hug, counting to three, and physically taking her screaming out of friends' house.
She will then eventually calm down and ask to go back and say goodbye and have hugs, which we do.
Problem is I end up shouting at her, she ends up in tears, I feel angry and awful and like not fixing up playdates any more because I can't bear the aftermath.
Any strategies to help dd cope with leaving, or help me with her refusal to leave??
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3 yr old has meltdowns when leaving friends' houses - help!!
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fondant4000 · 25/08/2006 14:13
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