DD is only in Reception and is a very happy, kind-hearted girl. She's not in a clique (yes, there really is one in Reception!!) but gets on with everyone (including those in the clique). So she doesn't have a best friend but always has someone to play with.
There is one girl (also not in the clique) who I give a lift to a couple of days a week and her Mum takes her and DD the other days. It's a small class and they're generally a lovely bunch of girls. The friend is nearly a year older than DD because she is a September baby and DD is a June baby.
Today the 'friend' says to DD "you're not beautiful but xxx and xxx are". DD came home and told DH and I this and was visibly upset. We told her that of course she's beautiful and that even though this 'friend' said this to her, it's not true and that at the same time, she must never say anything so mean to someone (not that she would - she's such a kind-hearted child).
DD is very small for her age (noticeably and has had blood tests to make sure that she is just small - we're awaiting the results) so already stands out, but now thinks she isn't beautiful.
I can't believe we're already facing this in Reception class. It's not the first thing this girl has said to DD either, I've heard them in the mornings before we leave. She tells DD that's very small (fact I guess...), that she's too slow, that she can't run as fast etc etc.
I've told DD to ignore ignore ignore, but is there anything else that we can do?
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Girl in DD's class told her today 'you're not beautiful like xxx and xxx'. How to reassure her?
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KEGirlOnFire · 02/04/2014 16:18
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