My son refuses to brush his teeth and as I know that he loves to take his bike to school, I say that unless he brushes his teeth, he will be unable to take his bike to school. He will then quite happily brush his teeth knowing that he will be able to take his bike to school.
Okay. About 14 min later after he does brush his teeth and before we are on our way to nursery he will throw some work papers on the floor. I explain to him it is not the done thing and ask him politely to pick it back up. He shakes his head and says no. I remind him again that if he doesn't do as he is told and pick up the paper he has thrown on the floor that I will be unable to allow him to take his bike to nursery... again.
So he picks up the paper and eventually we are on our way to nursery on his bike.
My wife says that if I threaten to take away a privilege such as not allowing him to take his bike to school if he doesn't brush his teeth. I shouldn't use the same bike threat for throwing paper on the floor moments later as I have (according to my wife) already indirectly promised him he can take his bike to school.
I was hoping for some input on this matter and thank you in advance.
Kind regards
Father of a 3 year old
Jon
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angelabbie · 22/03/2014 08:28
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