I really need help. Dd2 is 13 months and since the day she was born I've been darting thread after thread about how difficult she is, how badly the breastfeeding was going, how she wouldn't let me stop feeding etc. now she just won't stop crying. It's constant. She throws the biggest tantrums, screams so badly through dinner that it's ruining the experience for dd1 and my dh and I are constantly shouting at each other. Wee been close to separating because of the stress. Both dds are in nursery to give me a break. I can't handle them both together. I feel as though dd2 as broken me. I don't feel like a mum anymore, I'm the shell of my former self. I'm not depressed but I am extremely stressed. How do I deal with dd2 awful behaviour? It's truly awful! I feel so sorry for dd1. I used to do everything for her and always be there fr her and now I'm just the woman that's cooks her dinner, dh had to put her to bed and help her with things because I am constantly busy with my 13 month old. People say it will get better as they get older, I feel as though time will not heal this wound. What can I do?
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