I'm having some problems with my 5 yr old son and wondered if any of you have experienced anything similar and could perhaps offer some advice?
My son started school last Sept and at first seemed to settle in quite well. However, since Christmas, it's as if he has had a personality transplant! He has become aggressive towards his friend from nursery (in same class) and has started having tantrums over ridiculous things (we somehow missed the terrible two's!!??) and trouble getting to sleep.
He comes home saying the strangest things, sometimes quite worrying...
"I'm going to kill myself"
"I can't go to sleep because my brain won't let me sleep"
"I wish everyone would just leave me alone at school"
"Everyone at school hates me and calls me stupid"
He has been obsessed with superheros since he was about 3 and I sometimes think he really does believe he has super-powers...! He has always been a happy, fun-loving child but recently he has become moody, almost like a teenager, naughty and sometimes quite withdrawn. Nothing has changed at home so I can only assume it's something to do with settling in at school.
I have spoken to his teacher a couple of times and she is happy with his progress although she said he is struggling to focus and doesn't listen in a group, but is ok on a 121 basis. He is a reluctant reader but I'm told that a lot of boys struggle with reading in reception class.
I realise that starting school is a massive change for him and it's possible I'm just being neurotic. The comments about killing could just be related to games about goodies and baddies in the playground..... but it's just worrying when he seems like a different child and when we sometimes have tears before school, I just want to be able to fix whatever is upsetting him.
Any ideas, anyone? Any advice much appreciated.
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5 yr old has had personality change since starting school
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northernlass2 · 15/02/2014 22:59
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