Hi
I have a toddler who is turning 4 in two weeks. He was adopted by us at 22 months old having been taken at birth so no horrific history, one set of foster parents then us.
We have had a horrible year so far, his grandmother who he adores and used to go to one day per week nearly died of meningitus so he is now at nursury 4 days per week instead of three plus the worry about her health and obviously the effect that has had on myself and my husband. His dad has been unwell for a week nothing serious but meant he hasnt been able to play as much. He has met the new childminder who will be looking after him after school one day per week when he goes to big school in september. He has also started gymnastics with a new group of children for one hour without me which he loves but is really struggling leaving me at the door and has resulted in alot of crying. That has now affected him when dropping him off at nursury in the mornings he has started crying then too. The worst part is he is getting really angry and started scratching staff at nursury and his dad and on occasion me. Any advice at all? Am I pushing him too hard? how do I re-settle him? what can I do to stop the scratching nursury are not been very supportive at all or understanding.
thank you for your help.
Trina
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4 year old started scratching dad and nursury staff
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Trinataylor · 03/02/2014 19:57
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