Hi there, my DS had his tongue tie snipped at just under 12 weeks. For the first twelve weeks he fed every hour day and night, which improved after we had the procedure. I don't think that his tongue tie has reattached itself (though I can't be sure) while healing but I'm starting to wonder whether there is something else going on in his mouth which is affecting his solid intake. DS is now just over 10 months, 6-9 months we did baby-led weaning, so I know baby-led weaning can mean some babies are slower to take to solids, but for the last month we have been spoon feeding (panic about returning to work in a month's time!) we EBFed until a week ago but now trying to encourage him to take a bottle before afternoon nap.
-Never slept through the night, not yet,
-day goes something like this:approx times
-wakes at 04:00
-bf 05:00 (both sides after 2 nappies and a crazy hour of chatting)
-back to sleep until 07:00
-gets up with dad, not interested in solids for breakfast
-08:00 bf (both sides before morning nap of 45 mins usually)
-10:30 small amount of solids
-13:15 solids for lunch with water
-14:30 reluctantly takes about 3oz from a bottle
-after much fussing and trying to get at my boobs he eventually gives in and falls asleep at 15:30 for about 1-1.5 hours
-17:00/17:30 dinner
-play as don't want him to bath, feed, and bed too early, he'd go at 18:00 if we let him
- bath 18:15
-18:45 bf 1side
-19:30/20:00 bed after bf 1 side
Sips water throughout the day
-23:00 bf both sides
-Extremely wary of going to other people, gets in such a state (cries until you have to remind him to breathe, usually vomits. Now enjoys going to MIL, not the childminder yet, tried one hour with the childminder this week and she had to bring him back as he got so worked up.
-eats with the smallest of spoons, a doll's spoon in fact which is a quarter of the size of a baby feeding spoon, and even that seems too much for him.
-doesn't seem to be able to open his mouth very wide at all, and to me seems to have quite a small mouth (1st baby though so nothing to compare to so closely)
-can't seem to retrieve food from lip, pushes it back in with his finger
-anything which is slightly hard gets spat out, though he was fine with chewing (but not swallowing) all sorts when we were just BLW.
-IMO his chewing seems awkward
-pincer grip not quite there yet
-lip tie which seems to have split, at least a little, after a week of grinding teeth and quite a bit of blood a couple of days ago. Looks like it's come away a bit and top lip looked instantly fuller :)
-has 8 teeth and seems to be a little biter!
Does all of this seem ok? Sorry for the long post, in a panic! HV not a huge help but wondering does a resolved tongue tie still affect eating?
Thanks for reading :)