Feeling really discouraged and like I am moving backwards, rather than forwards.
We had a stab at potty training over Christmas, when DD was 2.3. She was enthusiastic about pants, keen to have a go and was kind of getting it, except for the pants down and pants up parts of it. We both ended up frustrated with each other, and we were running out of holiday time to do it in, so we gave up.
I had major surgery in February, so wasn't really able to have another go until quite recently, when we tried the previous May bank holiday and again today. Now, she's just not getting it at all. Shows no awareness of when she needs to do a wee and answers my (probably far too) frequent questions 'do you need a wee' with an emphatic 'no', even though she may then do a wee a couple of minutes later. She now doesn't want to sit on the potty and try at all - she gets upset if I suggest it. I think part of it is that she gets so engrossed in what she's doing now, that she just doesn't notice that she needs to go until it's too late. Today we had 5 huge failures (we're both covered in it) and one success when she told me she needed to do a poo and did both that and a wee in the potty.
I don't think she's ready, and I'm wondering what to do. I was putting he on the potty before her bath, with some success. More recently she's been getting upset if she doesn't manage to do a wee in it, to the extent that she will refuse to come off it and starts screaming if we try and put her in the bath.
It feels like I should just stop. Would removing the potty completely be a good idea? Maybe talk to her and explain that she needs to tell me when she is ready and wants to do it, but until then there's no potty at all? In some ways, she's kind of having her cake and eating it - she gets to be a 'big girl' once a day, but can still enjoy all the perks of being a baby in nappies. Maybe getting her to make a choice and decide would be a good idea?
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Another failed attempt to potty-train DD 2.8
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cardamomginger · 26/05/2013 17:26
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