DS is just two. He's always been what my mum calls 'busy' hard work, into everything, difficult to hold even when he was tiny, squirming about, getting hold of hair etc.
For a while, six months or so he's done this thing where he'll be playing happily with another child, then, i can see it in his face and he'll hurt the other child, push or hit, or pull hair. He's generally a really happy, friendly boy, and he's always really pleased with himself when he does it. I'm really strict about hurting, remove him straight away, and as it always involves another person or child, I'm very vocal about it. He doesn't do it at nursery, never has and has been going since 11 months.
Thing is, it's getting no better. For example, I might say 'let's go and see so and so' he will beam, he loves people, And say hooray, hurt so and so. Hit so and so, proper pleased with himself like he has a great plan!
I say no, we don't hurt, it will make so and so sad, and we want them to feel happy etc etc. it just isn't working, and now he's two I think it's actually getting a little worse, I have to watch him like a hawk, it's like his favourite game. He is always very upset if there is a reaction,if he thinks he's hurt the other person or child. It's so odd.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated,it's really stressing me out particularly as he's massive so people generally think he's much older and plain naughty. Is it normal?
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SarahJinx · 17/05/2013 20:25
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