DS1 is 8, and in y4. His teacher has put him in a SAP (Student Assistance Programme) group at school and suggested we see our doctor about him.
Her concerns are that he is often 'not with it' in class, he has to be reminded daily to do simple things e.g get his bookbag.
He also doesn't want to come to school when his teacher has PPA and a different teacher takes the class. When we ask him about this he says he likes the Teacher but "she doesn't do things right" and "it's just weird."
DH and I have been a little concerned about his 'ways' at home,
he often gets upset at change even 'good' change like going on holiday, he is happy to go to friends/relatives houses though.
He often gets upset but he doesn't know why/can't say why.
We have to remind him to do the same things everyday for example putting his socks on, opening his curtains.
He won't eat food in the shape of something for example a milky bar with a picture on it, he won't drink out of a cup with a picture on, he withdraws if he is offered these and it has made him heave on occasion.
He withdraws from large groups, if we have lots of visitors he goes to his room. He is fine with groups of his friends but wouldn't go to a school disco for example.
We seem to have been waiting for him to grow out of the above for a long time, and the older he gets the more these things seem to be a problem.
He has got lots of friends, and gets on well with people at school. Academically he is doing very well, he is in the higher groups in his class for English and Maths. He has a great imagination and sense of humour.
He doesn't love school and often says he doesn't want to go but he is always happy when I pick him up from school.
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QueenBoo · 18/04/2013 12:04
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