She wasn't too bothered by it at first, and just carried on. She finds him funny and giggles at him a lot, despite him pushing her. Then he bit her and she wailed (unsurprisingly) and got her coat. We left shortly after that. Went back yesterday (3 weeks later or so) and he was at it again. Unfortunately I had said we would stay for dinner so we had hours of trying to stop him pulling out her dummy (swiping at her face ever 5 mins), pushing her over and biting anything he could get his teeth into. Poor DD was still game for a giggle but was being very defensive (arms out to ward him off) whenever he came running at her.
His mum has just had another baby in the last month, which is possibly a cause but he also has been bitten and pushed at his nursery, which could explain where he is learning it from.
I know his mum is trying to stop his behaviour, as did I yesterday, by asking him to kiss/cuddle instead, shouting NO! and distracting, but it is wearing and I can understand with NB she is a bit worn down. I suggested she talk to the nursery (she has mentioned she is annoyed they aren't firmer with him when he pushes there as they say 'oh he did a bit of pushing and biting' as if it were nothing).
Any advice from people who have been through this before? I know DD thinks he is the best thing since sliced bread other than this as she is constantly in hysterics when we are over there and they chase each other, etc, laughing. I don't want to stop seeing my friend either (especially as she is trying to stop it ad with a NB), but worried DD may be getting more than physically hurt if I keep subjecting her to this. Help!
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Friend's son keeps biting and pushing DD (he is 18mo and she 19mo)
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ATouchOfStuffing · 02/04/2013 12:52
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