Hey...sorry for starting a new thread - i started a thread this morning with the sane concern but i can no longer reply to it!
Ok...so whats happening is that my 11.5 months old son has not grown in weight or height since he was 8 months old. Its been 3.5 months and NO GROWTH. He was always a slow gainer - born at 25th centile and fell to 2nd and still falling. But my new concern is not slow growth, its no growth!
I just feel something inside me telling that there should be a reason for his growth to have practically stopped. Neither me nor my husband are huge people but then babies of small parents do grow!!! He eats good and is a very happy n content baby otherwise.
I m trying to get the doctor to b concerned about it but they keep telling 'he seems ok'. I read that a child with things like growth hormone disorder will be developing normally other than 'growing physically'. So that means my son may be all happy , intelligent n crawling etc normally but could still have a problem.
I dont want to sound paranoid but i m a mother n like every other mum i take great pains to feed him right (feeding an almost toddler is never easy) n choose the best for him - if after all this effort i see absolutely no result, i will feel bogged down :-( but why would any doctor care about this. I will shut up if the doc can run some tests and tell me they r all ok instead of just saying 'he seems fine'.
Its been 11 months of stress for me because he has always been growing slow (before now when he stopped growing all together). It may be that he is ok but its just the 'peace of mind' - i just want that!
For 11 months i have heard :
- 'u r so tiny, so ur baby MAYBE genetically small'
- he is so active, he SEEMS just fine
- he is crawling at 7 months, he Is PROBABLY just be a small baby
- DONT WORRY
But u know what...after 11 months doubtful words like maybe, seems, probably - they only irritate me! The worst of all is DONT WORRY- for god sake its MY child - if i dont worry for him , who will?????
Its very easy to label a mum paranoid....but u guys please think about it for a minute n tell me whether i m paranoid - my son has not grown AT ALL, not in height, not in weight - for 3.5 months now. Anybody give me one reason why i shud ignore this and not worry. Babies have tye highest growth rate in the first year of life....so?!?!???!
Am i a paranoid mum or m i just a mum!!!!!!
I hate everybody who gives me the 'awww dont worry u paranoid mum' look!!!!!
Please please somebody help me!!! I have been crying hours n hours together n i m just too stressed to do anything else in life (still on my maternity leave so i have absolutely no other distraction to take my mind off)