My DS has just turned 9 months and I am currently having a really tough time with getting him to sleep in his cot
Up until 10 days ago I co-slept with him, however DH and I decided that the time was about right to move him into his cot - he has never slept more than 4 hours in one go and we thought that letting him have his own space might help him - it hasn't; although that is another thread altogether
One of our main issues is that DS seems to hate bedtime and sleeping in general. We have, what I feel, is a good bedtime routine. It roughly starts after DS has his dinner at about 5ish. We usually take him up for a bath about 6.15pm, read to him, BF him and try and put him down at about 7pm.
Recently he has started to cry when he goes for his bath, I suspect that this is largely that he knows what is coming. He calms down during his bath (as he realises he enjoys them) but starts getting worked up at the reading stage, calms down when BF, then gets REALLY worked up when we lay him down. Whilst he was in my bed this wasnt too much of a problem as we could lie with him and he will drift off, in his cot we cannot do this. He has never slept on his back so and only settles when lying on his side, trying to leave him to sleep is almost impossible as he will just roll over and start crying.
I also think that he is teething, he spends a lot of his time pulling at his ears and rubbing his mouth, although no teeth have come through!!
We do use a dummy but only to settle him at night and we have been trying to wean him off this. He has stopped using it during the night but still needs it to "drift off" although we tend to take it out of his mouth before he falls asleep, the initial settling of him still requires a dummy.
Any help / advice would be welcome from those who have been in a similar position. I am not keen on the idea of controlled crying and only want to use this as a last resort however it is often taking us nearly 2 hours to get him to sleep. Maybe the move to the cot has been harder on him than I thought it would be.
I am getting a bit desperate now - I am writing this on New Years Eve! I go back to work in a couple of months and things really need to improve.
Happy New Year to everyone :)
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Really struggling with 9 month old sleeping
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LaDenf · 31/12/2012 19:24
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