In the last year or so, my boys have started to play in a way that makes me uncomfortable but I´m not sure if I should worry or not.
They are 6 and 4 and the 6 yr old has already started masturbating from time to time although he is not very sexually aware in any other way.
When they play together physically, the elder one nearly always instigates touching of genitals, rubbing and pushing between his legs by the younger. Sometimes they kick and punch there too, but I can tell that the eldest is enjoying the feeling.
I worry that the younger one is being influenced a lot by this- it´s one of the few times his big brother is nice to him, so could def affect his sexual perceptions in future, couldnt it?
I have tried: forbidding it, punishing, separation, calm and kind talking to explain why it´s not a good way to play.....basically every approach.
Am I over-reacting??
It´s just that, were my elder a teenager or adult doing these things, I would consider it sexual abuse! AIBU??
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Sexual behaviour between brothers
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Pinkypoops · 13/12/2012 11:44
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