I?m looking for some advice as DH and I are struggling with our DD?s behaviour.
DD is 5 and half years old and an only child. She started school in August, which she seems to have settled into well and is enjoying apart from being tired and not liking not having much time to play after school due to home work, other activities.
The real problem we are having is with her behaviour as she has become a very huffy, stroppy, crying over the slightest thing and being very bossy especially with DH and I.
She wants to play with us but it turns into a disaster as she spends about an hour setting up whatever we have to play with i.e. dolls and then spends the whole time telling us how to play, what we can and can?t do while we are playing. If she can?t set the dolls up the way she wants she starts crying and then will say you think I?m stupid something we have never ever said to her.
Most days when I pick her up form school she goes in the huff about something. Friday it was because I had not brought her a snack as she has a half day and we go home for lunch. She goes in the huff if she is playing with a friend at the park and they then have to go away. She then goes from being huffy to being angry and takes it out on me. I feel every day is a battle and the little girl that we once had who was happy is now a very unhappy little girl.
We have tried speaking to her to ask if anything is wrong at school but she says no and that she is happy and have lots of friends to play with.
The one thing I would say is she is not a very confident little girl even although she is very bossy with us. She is also very sensitive and gets upset easily and even when other children are crying she will get upset because they are upset she also seems to worry about silly things like if people are laughing near her she gets angry as she thinks they are laughing at her.
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Struggling With 5 Year Old's Behaviour - Please Help
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xBeingTheBestMummyICanx · 27/10/2012 19:57
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