so my ds1 who is 3 has been going to pre school for 3 weeks (2 mornings a week) today i've been taken aside and told that nothing to be worried about but ds1 in the last 2 days has once got naked and got his winky out and was showing it to everyone and the other time in the toilet did the same whilst there were girls too.
she said it's probably coz he hasn't got a sister (only ds2) and it seems that it intrests him quite a bit that girls haven't got willys. i was a bit shocked that he did this as he is not bothered about his winky at hom at all, every now and then we have a laugh when he puts his pants on and his winky gets left out but nothing more. although he likes to get naked just before bathtime and has a jump around on our bed and he genrally likes to be naked but i wouldn't say he ever pays much attention to his winky.
the teacher suggested that i should just ignore it and see how it goes but i did talk to him about it on the way home and he though it was fun getting naked and showin his winky to others, so i told him that naked time is for our home and that he shouldn't show his winky to others. he said ok
so i just wanted some reassurance really that other boys go through this and that he will grow out if ( i mean i know that friendship with the winky is a lifelong thing) but hopefully showing it off in public isn't. I know if i was a mum of a little girl and she came back from school saying a boy showed me his winky, i'd not be happy. Most of his school mates are our neighbours so i know what his nickname is going to be from now on :)
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workingonitagain · 19/10/2012 19:13
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27/10/2012 18:45
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