I am new to this...hope i'm doing it right. I am at the end of my tether, pushed as far as I can go. My daughter is 4 and until she was 2.5 was fine in every way. But gradually her behaviour has changed giving us concerns that she may be autistic. We saw paediatrician 4 months ago and were told she is absolutely fine. We have 3 major concerns: 1)obsessive behaviour - won't wear socks/tights, hates putting school shoes on and when she does, she pulls the straps so tight that she marks her feet (it usally takes about 10 minutes to put school shoes on and by the end she is hysterical), wipes her bottom 10 times and says its still wet, won't wear pjyamas in bed because she says they're wet.....I could go on with many other such behaviours. 2)Flaps her hands and grimmaces - usually when she is excited or in anticipation. 3) Anger - she blows her top all the time to excessive levels, shouts and screams in the middle of the night and won't calm down. This is just a taster of how her behavour is at the moment. In some ways her behaviour doesn't fit with autism as she can make and friends and play well with others and she has good eye contact. Could it be something else? We just don't know where to turn. I feel we are becoming socially isolated, trying to pretend to the outside world that everything is ok when it clearly isn't. I am scared of going to parties or peoples houses in case she kicks off. I am also really worried about the effect on our other two children (one older, one younger). I would be really grateful if anyone could offer me advice. Thank you.x
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sparkler76 · 17/10/2012 02:10
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