Love How to Talk, think it's a brilliant approach and makes perfect sense to me. Unfortunately it makes less sense to DD. If she's upset and I try to empathise then it just enrages her even more.
Eg just now she started to go into tantrum mode because she wanted to eat a bowl of cereal on the sofa in front of the tv and DH and I said she had to eat them in the kitchen at the table. DH started trying to explain rationally why she couldn't do this but I felt that she was beyond listening to reason/logic (I do feel bad for butting in ) so I said "Wow, you're really cross, aren't you? It's really frustrating when mummy and daddy won't let you do something", which is as far as I got as she then clapped her hands over her ears and started screaming "Shut up! Shut up! Stop talking!".
This happens quite often. Am I doing it all wrong? She's (just) 4.
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When How to Talk doesn't work??
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DitaVonCheese · 06/10/2012 12:24
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