I have just read similar posts and like other mums have not known who to talk to face-to-face or other, or really what to say. I don't even know how to put it here but to say that I have found my DD, who is 3, rubbing herself with her comfort blanket. At first I was shocked as she has never seen us doing this. I have tried to ask her about it but am not sure if what she tells me is true. I asked why she did it and she cant tell me. I asked if it felt nice is that why she does it she said yes. I asked if someone showed her and she said her aunt but not her uncle, then on another occasion she just names everyone (including their dogs) but her aunt is always the first she says. There has only been a few times where my DD has been alone with her aunt and 4yo girl cousin. It makes me think WTF! has been going on? My relationship with the aunt is a very sensitive one ie she is so moody, spoilt and impossible and have fallen out several times before. Do I challenge her on this or is this possibly just a stage kids go through and my asking who showed her this evoking any kind of answer. If my DD has been shown this I don't think I will be responsible for my actions!
I am also in a predicament that if its true then I am obligated to tell her employer as she is a nursery teacher so you can see any allegation could be damaging especially if not true.
I am certainly not going to allow my DD to EVER be alone when the aunt is around.
Advice PLEASE.
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dee1dee · 02/10/2012 13:36
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