My dd is 4.4yo. She's a happy, bright, confident child. She started nursery a year ago and went 2 days a week. She left at the end of August and started reception last week. And what a nightmare week it was.Â
She went in ok on the first day but she's been so upset since. We had problems at nursery drop off in the beginning so we found a place to say goodbye and then a teacher would take her in to wave to me. This worked. I asked the school to try it on Wednesday and it worked (she was crying but went in) but on Thursday she woke up tired and it went downhill from there. She woke up saying she didn't want to go but we had a nice breakfast and she got ready. I let her watch a tv programme before we left and when it finished she got very upset (as in hysterical) wanting another. In the end I had to carry her to school screaming. When we arrived (it's two mins walk away) she was so distressed she was screaming, clawing at me not to go. I stayed with her outside for 15 minutes trying to calm her down. It eventually worked enough for a teacher to take her in and at the end of the day she was fine. She doesn't like lunchtime in the big hall. It is too noisy and she's not sure of what she needs to do to get her lunch. I am resolving that by giving her packed lunch like her friends from now on.Â
Friday was a training day so she was off with me. This weekend she has asked frequently how many days of weekend she has left. I feel so sad for her and don't know what to do. She's been hitting, spitting and screaming this weekend which is astonishing compared to her usual behaviour.Â
Relevant information is that we have a 2mo. None of the anger has been directed to the baby. I can tell my dd is feeling insecure, afraid, excited. I am losing sleep over how to support her and make sure we don't have a repeat of Thursday. Ever.Â
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AP 4yo distraught at going to school
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monkeysmama · 23/09/2012 08:43
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