My DS aged 4.5 yrs has always struggled to focus and concentrate. He sleeps well (approx 10-11 hours a night) but has the energy of a Duracell bunny. We often joke that he does in one day what 2 children do, he's that energetic.
Nursery have often said that he's very intelligent and needs over stimulating - now he's just started school and we want to move him onto the next stage and help him with concentrating and more importantly listening. When he's hyped up (and no I wouldn't describe him as a hyperactive child) he goes into a different world and it takes some work and time to bring him back down to earth.
Its definitely not his diet - he only drinks water and milk (occasionally he has no added sugar blackcurrant squash but the merest drop, literally to colour the water), never has any type of juice or sweets, has a good range of healthy foods, fruit, vegetables, dairy etc. so I am confident its not anything he's consuming - he also has packed lunches at school so I know exactly what he's eating there too.
He gets frustrated and angry at times and I think he needs help learning how to channel that angry energy and also to calm down and play gently/quietly when necessary.
Now he's started school we are paranoid that he will get labelled unfairly - however we don't like to admit it, school years bring labels especially for confident/talkative/boisterous children.
I have considered cranial osteopathy as have heard that before 6 years old that can be beneficial. He had a difficult birth - 45 hours resulting in emergency c-section because he was back to back (only just found out he was back to back due to 2nd pregnancy). He's always resisted and disliked being confined.
Any thoughts welcome!
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Help needed with 4 yr old - lack of concentration and listening
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tigersmummy · 20/09/2012 10:59
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