Having a very hard day today and am in need of some reassurance (I hope!). Life has obviously always been pretty tricky with triplets (bbg) but I've always just got my head down and got on with it in the hope things will one day be easier and more enjoyable. However things don't really seem to be going that way and I'm at a loss now as I desperately want to enjoy my children and I'm really not feeling that way.
The worst part at the moment I think is just general behaviour. I am a sahm and they attend nursery for 2 full days a week (for me as much as them). On the days they aren't at nursery I am completely devoted to them I.e. play games, activities, cook with them, draw but whatever I do it seems it's not good enough. Even doing something as simple as jigsaws ends in screeches of 'mummy, mummy help me, no help me, no help me' 'he did that, she did this' etc etc. This morning we were doing crafts in the kitchen and after 2 mins the arguing and screeching had begun as to who I was to draw a picture for, what stamps weren't working for another and the list goes on. The general mood then followed through into lunch time 'I don't want that, no I won't sit at the table, blow my nose, feed me.......... I could go on for hours about the whining and whingeing. I'm pretty strict and have given 4 time outs this morning alone but I really can't see an end to this. I thought being a mum would be hard but wonderful, however at the moment I've waited 4 years and it's still a long hard slog to be quite frank and it's taking all of my reserves to get through it.
Any reassurance, advice would be very gratefully received. Thank you
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Triplets aged 4 - will life ever get easier?
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wrenster · 19/09/2012 13:11
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