My friend is going through hell. She has a 2 month old baby and a 2 year old son who is very hard work. I am in the same boat re number / age of children, but my dd is much easier than her ds and I have no idea how she gets through the day. I am watching her gradually get more and more beaten into the ground by the daily awfulness of it all.
I would hesitate to say her son is hyperactive, i am not an expert and from what I have read on mumsnet, 'true' hyperactive's are nothing like her ds. I would describe him as a normal toddler, just turned up full volume. He is very excitable and has terrible tantrums but is a sweet, loving, bright little boy who just hasn't got a hang of controlling himself yet. I am sure this will come. However, in the meantime, does anyone have any advice? Her dh works all hours and she has no break from it apart from two mornings a week when he goes to nursery. Her baby is gradually 'waking up' and will soon be needing more of her attention, but she cannot look at him or talk to him for more than a moment before she is off, trying to sort out world war 3 with ds1. Her health visitor suggested a trainee nanny from a college down the road - they provide their services free as it is work experience - but she has had no joy in getting hold of anyone. We live in S London.
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practical help needed for mum of hyper 2 year old
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Cha · 10/12/2003 16:37
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