Hi everyone!
I have a little boy called Euan and he turned 2 a couple of weeks ago.
He's fine with most things, but he's absolutely terrified of swimming pools and will not go near them without hysterics.
The problem is, we live in a fairly remote rural area and the nearest swimming pool to us is a half hour drive and freezing cold. They get loads of complaints about the pool temperature and people talk about it a lot, but I work in a hotel with a pool and I know we get complaints about the pool temperature too and we keep it at the maximum temperature allowed by pool regulations. Anyway, I digress...
While my wife was on maternity leave, she didn't really bother to take him swimming as she didn't want to have to pay the extortionate costs of water babies classes who make you pay for an entire course up front when she couldn't necessarily get to every class on a weekly basis, so we've just been left to our own devices.
Now he used to be quite happy to go into the pool and be carried around slowly but securely and we used to pass him to and from each other in his rubber ring/seat thing which he also seemed quite happy with.
When we take him now though, as soon as he realises where we're going, he starts panicking and thrashing around and every time we take him in the pool he absolutely screams the place down and although I'm not normally too bothered about his behaviour in public, we find this a little embarassing because we feel like we're forcing him to do something he clearly doesn't want to do. But then we see kids younger than him, playing in the water quite happily, swimming around in rubber rings and generally enjoying themselves.
What can we do to get him to realise it's fun? We've tried taking toys, but he's just not interested. He's too preoccupied with having a paddy and trying to get us to not take him in.
I guess my main question is, I'm off work all next week and still have another week to take off in November too and wondered if anyone could recommend anything I could use that time for to try and give him a bit of confidence and hopefully start enjoying going swimming?
Thanks everyone.
Kris
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Euansdad · 21/10/2011 09:37
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