My nearly-3 DD1 is driving me absolutely round the bend with her constant whining and tears over nothing. I spend all day saying "I can't understand you when you whine" or barking "Whining!" at her. I don't respond with an answer to her question (or whatever) until she asks in a normal voice. It's not that she's whining to get something she's not allowed, she'll just say something normal like "I want some breakfast" in a whiny way. She very often seems tired, she wakes up for the day still tired and sometimes crying. She dropped her nap months ago, on the rare occasions when she does have a nap e.g. in the car, her behaviour is much better in the afternoon but then she stays up very late messing around in her room and the next day she's just as tired.
I just don't know what to do, as I said it's driving me round the bend, I am knackered anyway and irritable from 4 month old DD2 waking frequently at night, and finding it very difficult not to just shout at DD1. I know she's probably acting like this in response to DD2, I do my best to give her as much attention as I can but obviously she does have to spend a fair amount of time sharing me. Aaargh!
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Constant whining and tiredness - almost-3 yr old
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Zimbah · 12/10/2011 10:17
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