Just after a bit of advice/support.
I have a gorgeous, but mentally exhausting 7 year old boy, who is currently sitting in his bedroom in tears, because a sport teacher was a bit abrupt and "told him off".
DS is a child who ALWAYS follows the rules. He is very black and white, has a huge sense of right and wrong, and is simply never naughty. Bright, very good at school work, self motivated and basically a delight, but hates change, hates change, hates it if he isn't successful at what he does and cannot cope if he sees injustice!
So, every so often, we have these awful moments where something happens - a teacher misunderstands something (today's event), or ge can't follow a rule because it is impossible for some reason, and he just goes to pieces.
School are fantastic and have been working with him to deal with these meltdowns. It is usually the main topic of discussion at parent's evenings.
At home, I have been trying to teach him ways to handle this, but I find it so hard. I have tried to jolly him out if it today, pointed out that the teacher said one very small comment which she will have forgotten about in seconds, and have left him to play whilst I bath his brother (use MN!).
Any suggestions? I obviously blame myself and my DH, as we are lawyers by trade, and it's probably in his genes, but I just find it emotionally draining. (DS2 is so laid back, it's unreal:) ).
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Super sensitive 7 year old
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sittinginthesun · 15/09/2011 19:11
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