My son is 11 weeks and falls asleep at the breast both at night and for naps. I wait until he is in a deep sleep before moving him from my bed, as I feed him lying down, to his basket. He has a bedtime routine with bath etc and then sleeps 3-6 hours before waking for a night feed. However I find it difficult to put him back down in the night and often end up with him in bed or re-feeding him to comfort him which can lead to fussing. My dilemma is should I put him down drowsy but awake to encourage self soothing? I tried yesterday with an afternoon nap but it took an hour of patting and soothing while he cried on and off. I felt uncomfortable as while the book I read by Penelope Leach said this is not the same as controlled crying, I worry that letting him cry at all is psychologically damaging. Equally I don't want to store up problems for the future by not encouraging him to fall asleep by himself in his own bed. Any advice welcome x
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Would you let a 3 month cry at all when settling?
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expuffinbookclub · 13/09/2011 10:22
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