Over the last few weeks my 4 month old DS seems to have become increasingly unhappy. We are now at the point where he is only happy for about 5 minutes at a time before he starts crying. He is generally consolable if I pick him up and bounce him but it's never long before he starts crying again, even if held. I'll then change his position and he'll be happy again for another five minutes etc. etc. I also use a Moby wrap sling, which will keep him happy for about 15 minutes as long as I am moving around preferably outside the house.
The only way he will stay happier for longer is if I have him in the sling AND give him the dummy AND bounce him up and down. However, I try only to use the dummy before he goes to sleep as I don't want to get to the point where he just has it in all the time.
He is particularly upset after feeding, which made me wonder if he had silent reflux. We have had two days on Infant Gaviscon at the GP's prescription but so far it doesn't seem to have made any difference.
I am just finding it so hard - I am in tears by the end of most days. I feel like such a failure that I can't keep him happier. Just spent the afternoon with some other Mums and babies and was just amazed at how calm the other babies were in comparison. He does sleep well at night, thank God - it's the only thing getting me through the day at the moment. In terms of day time naps, he has 3 naps of half an hour plus about an hour in the sling over lunch.
Does anyone have any ideas or coping strategies? Everyone said it would get easier at 4 months but it just seems to be getting harder and harder. I just want him to be happy.
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Unhappy 4 month old - please help
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Malbec · 09/09/2011 19:11
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