Just after some advice really if anyone has experienced my situation. My DS seems to be very needy all the time. He goes through clingy phases which I know are normal with all babies, before milestones, frustration, teething etc. However, DS has been like this since about 3 months old. I hear of other people doing housework, washing up, anything that doesn't involve them having to carry around their babies, whilst their LO watches! I feel like I'm trapped. If I put him down and try and get on with stuff he'll scream and then it'll turn into proper all out crying with tears. I have tried to just let him carry on as he needs to understand that I can't hold him all the time. When he was smaller I could use the sling, but I can only carry around 9kg of extra weight for so long and trying to clean or do the dishwasher is impossible, and he just gets fidgety and wants to get out anyway. He can manage about half an hour of playing on the floor or standing at the sofa or me holding his hands. He can't crawl or bum shuffle. We bought a jumperoo which sits in the kitchen but unless I am sitting right next to him he screams in it (whilst jumping!), and they are bad screams and whingey noises. I go to the toilet with him sitting on the bathroom floor, and if I need to get something from the room next door (in an open plan house) I have to either take him with me or console his crying when I come back into the room, which escalates at such a pace that I have to pick him up and walk around for a few minutes.
If your child is or was like this I would be grateful to hear how you overcame these problems or whether they are still present! At least when he starts moving he can follow me about, right?!
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Will he always be like this? Very needy 9 month old.
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milkyjo · 06/09/2011 12:24
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