Hi,
I'm a little concerned about the behaviour of DD (25 months), and thought I'd ask whether what she is doing is normal for a toddler, and also if anyone had any ideas as to whether there is anything we can do other than ride it out.
By way of background, we also have a DS (9 months). DW is at home with them both full time, and DD goes to nursery four mornings a week (same ones every week).
For a long time she has been reluctant to go to nursery, and screams and resists when leaving the house and being dropped off - but she settles by the time we have reached the end of the street and after a couple of minutes at nursery where she seems to have a nice time and is always happy when we arrive to pick her up. The tantrums have been getting worse recently though.
More recently, DD has become more and more attached to DW and, even though she is used to me taking care of her, demands DW's presence all of the time (she gets upset even if DW leaves the room to make a cup of tea and she can't go too), and insists that DW do things for her rather than me, even if I was doing it before (eg reading a story while she eats breakfast).
Part of me things this is probably just normal toddler behaviour as she tries to make sense of the world together with a bit of jealousy from her little brother getting looked after, but it can be quite stressful.
Would be v grateful for the thoughts and advice of Mumsnetters, even if its just to tell me I'm being silly and DD'll get over it!
Thanks
Clive.
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CallMeClive · 10/08/2011 12:18
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